Posts Tagged ‘Social Activity’

How to Get Help When You Need It

Sunday, September 20th, 2009

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 By Madeleine Kolb

The first time my friend Jen invited my BF and me to have Thanksgiving dinner with her and her BF, I didn’t hesitate.  “Sure,” I said, “that would be great. What would you like me to bring?” Jen was seldom at a loss for words, but she seemed hesitant, apologetic. 

After quite a long pause, she said, “Well, uhh, I know, uhh, you have diabetes, but, uhh—do you think—could you, uhh, maybe bring desert?” She looked relieved. She’d done it.  She’d told me how I could help. 

“Glad to,” I said. “And how about cranberry sauce? I’ll make some of that too.” I brought my absolutely fabulous sour-cream apple pie —made with Splenda instead of sugar and no-fat yogurt instead of sour cream—and cranberry sauce made with Splenda. 

This was a win-win solution. Jen and her BF got help from me with Thanksgiving dinner. I got to help my friend, while preparing a desert that even my BF and I could eat without worrying too much about sky-rocketing blood-glucose levels.  And of course, all four of us got to eat a fabulous meal, drink a little holiday wine, and enjoy each other’s company.  

So what was the problem?  (more…)

In Praise of Potluck

Saturday, July 4th, 2009

By Madeleine Kolb

With summer come many delights, such as seeing that giant, golden orb in the sky again and potluck dinners. I love them because they combine  two of my favorite activities:  talking and eating.

So over the years I’ve been to lots of potlucks—a few of which I will never forget. 

  •  In the “Memorable But Not in a Good Way” category was one many years ago when my son was in pre-school.  Out of a small group of parents, about five or six brought exactly the same thing—macaroni salad.  I like it, but enough is enough.
  • Fast forward to last summer’s annual neighborhood potluck.  (more…)